WHY I LET MY HUSBAND DO WHAT HE WANTS TO DO

I should call this LEVELS OF LOVE: 
SEX, LOVE AND GOD........ MY AUTOBIOGRAPHY.  THIS IS # 7 BOOK I AM WRITING, 
YES, IT DOES EXIST.
A little tiny side note on all my books I  am presently writing 7: Besides the one above, # 1. The Cloudy Skies Were Unhappy...a book about Jews and Arabs. #2. The Coldest Planet of Inuack...a Sci Fi. # 3. Woods...a Romance.(FINISHED) # 4. Daily Devotionals...Bible Verses/ 365days...Expounded Upon. # 5 Bible Kids...Self Explanatory # 6. Family Foibles...Funny Stories involving the Levins Family and last but not least, as I stated above # 7. "SEX, LOVE & GOD"....MY AUTOBIOGRAPHY.
Now I have a Trilogy(same characters) finished,(no not published-NOT EVEN IN PAPER BACK-) "# 1.You Can't Fiddle in the Wind," #2 "But I Don't Wanna Catch Flies" and  # 3. "When Victory's Not Debatable."  only available through me. Well there's always the comment box.
Well, just thought I'd share what I do......I also study Hebrew, Greek and Spanish! & Just for fun DON AND I, exercise,(JUST TO KEEP THE BODY MOVING) Mon....Bike, Tues...Aerobics, Wed...Weights, Thurs....Jazercise, Fri....Belly Dance, Sat... Walk, Sun....Walk. So as you can see, I do not sit on my lazy ass!(Of course you're not allowed to ask DON) I know it does look that way, since Don does so much!!!Occasionally I Clean, Sew daily, Make a Calendar and Laugh a Lot.......& TALK TALK TALK, WHEN I GET THE CHANCE THAT IS....AND I FORGOT! FOR MORE FUN, FUN, FUN, I ALSO PLAY THE GUITAR, BANJO, FIDDLE, PIANO, DULCIMER AND BLUES HARP, AND I WANT A MANDELYNN. Not to mention I have written over 200 Gospel and Regular songs PUT IN TWO BOOKS, I HAVE MADE 8 CD'S GOSPEL AND 5 REGULAR SONGS CD'S, compiled a LEVINS' COOKBOOK OF DISHES WE ALL LOVE, wrote a POEM BOOK AND COMPILED MY HUSBANDS LOVE NOTES TO ME! AND I LOVE TO SING!  NAH, I DON'T WORK! I do like to watch at night tv, house, criminal minds, csi, ncsi, csi los angeles, the voice, american idol and any documentaries. THAT'S ENOUGH OF ME! WELL, MAYBE NOT! I DO LOVE TO READ MY BIBLE AND I LOVE JESUS!

NOW BACK TO THE SUBJECT OF MARRIAGE!!!


NOW FIRST OF ALL, IF YOU LIVE WITH UM BEFORE MARRIAGE, YOU PROBABLY HAVE ALL KINDS OF REASONS WHY THIS IS SO. THIS IS NOT A SUBJECT I WILL BROACH, SO  DON'T COMMENT ON IT. NOT NOW ANYWAY! I WILL SAY IT IS PROBABLY SEXUAL IN NATURE! AND AS GOD PUTS IT, IT IS FORNICATION. SOMETIMES IT'S DOWNRIGHT ADULTERY(MIND COUNTS)TAKE IT UP WITH HIM.

"Has no one condemned you?”
   “No one, sir,” she said.
   “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

THE LAW CONDEMNS, CHRIST MAKES ALIVE.  
“I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”
My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand. I and the Father are one.”
FOLLOW HIM. 

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BEFORE YOU READ ON DOWN, I THOUGHT I WOULD GIVE YOU SOME CREDENTIALS TO ASCERTAIN WHY I AM EXPERT ENOUGH TO WRITE ON MARRIAGE. 

I HAVE  BEEN MARRIED 50 YEARS! OUR GOLDEN ANNIVERSARY WAS FEBRUARY 24, 1962.  THROUGH UPS AND DOWNS WE ARRIVED UNSCATHED! I THINK THAT IS CREDENTIALS ENOUGH FOR ANY ONE, IT'S CALLED EXPERIENCE....AND IT COUNTS!

First of all let me tell YOU what I believe about marriage. None of the gooey kinda of, 'I love you,' then 5 years down the line I don't love you no more. OR THE OLE, I SEX YOU 5 YEARS AGO, BUT I DON'T SEX YOU NO MORE!
How goofy can you get. You marry for sex, FOREVER. YOU HAVE ESTABLISHED A BLOOD COVENANT WITH EACH OTHER. THAT IS A PRETTY HEAVY COVENANT. Now you at least ought to agree with me on that. 'I GOT MARRIED IN A FEVER, HOTTER THAN A PEPPER SACK.' AT LEAST JOHNNY CASH, IS HONEST ABOUT IT. SEX IS NOT LOVE, LOVE IS NOT SEX.  THERE  MAY BE SOME CROSSOVERS OCCASIONALLY, BUT SOON YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN THEM.

LOVE WILL GROW GIVEN THE RIGHT FOUNDATION and one never knows when this happens, the right foundation that is, but one has TO BUILD ON IT, or it will waste away. LOVE HAS CHRISTLIKE OVER-TONES. IF NEITHER ONE OF YOU ARE CHRISTIANS, YOU'LL NEVER KNOW LOVE ONLY IN IT'S EARTHLY ELEMENTS. SO GO AHEAD AND SEX IT UP. YOUR LOST ANYWAY. YOU NEED JESUS. 
LOVE DOES NOT DEMAND IT'S OWN WAY..... uh-o, lets me out.....LOVE NEVER FAILS! uh-o I have double dipped sometimes,  LOVE IS STRONGER THAN DEATH! I should laugh at funerals, CRY AT BIRTHS(THEY FACE PAIN TO COME IN AN IMPERFECT WORLD) but I HAVE been known to cry AT FUNERALS, even when I know I will see them again GOD TELL'S US THAT(.Yet He, the power of life itself incarnated before her eyes, wept at Lazarus’s tomb. Verse 35 shows Jesus again as the fully divine Son of God still being fully human. He is the embodiment of the intersection between heaven and earth. This verse is crucial to understand His delay in coming. God’s ways may be mysterious, but He does not play games with us merely to prove a point. His triumph does not remove real pain. However much we deserve it, death is a terrible price to pay, and God knows it. Jesus wept)........EXCERPT FROM MY MOODY DEVOTIONAL.
HOW MANY PEOPLE EXHIBIT THESE TRAITS!  Read 1 & 11 Corinthians, it will tell you what Love is and it is not sex.  IT WILL TELL YOU WHAT GOD IS ALSO.
If you say your in Love, but don't exhibit some of these traits, then it is not so. WHY NOT TELL THE TRUTH. SOME PEOPLE ARE REALLY really LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE, “LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT.” This is marvelous, keep it up. Prove “LOVE IN THE PRESENT EXISTS TOO.” And also prove “LOVE AT LAST SIGHT,” exists also. 
But I figure you prayed for this individual IF YOU'RE A CHRISTIAN.THEN YOU DO HAVE BRAGGING RIGHTS! AS LONG AS GOD GIVES UM TO YOU, THAT IS. BUT I REALLY BELIEVE HE'LL TURN IT AWAY FROM YOU, AND POINT TO HIS SON WHO EXEMPLIFIED ALL THESE TRAITS. I AIN'T SAYING IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO BE IN LOVE, BUT COMPARED TO CHRIST, YOU'LL FALL SHORT BUT I BELIEVE YOU CAN LOVE WITH GOD'S HELP, THAT IS. AND YOU CAN ACHIEVE IT, and satisfy maybe one or two of these traits. I am saying you better not be found bragging about it, if I were you. Just be happy God has given you a taste of Heaven. And thank him for it.

I SAY ALL THAT TO SAY THIS, SEX is a good reason to get married. Then you forsake all others, which is what God wants to begin with and get it from your marriage partner. SOME EVEN SAY WELL, I DON'T SEX UM ANYMORE...NOW THAT IS A REAL LIE. SEX ALL OF A SUDDEN DID NOT CEASE TO BE ON YOUR AGENDA. IT IS ALIVE AND WELL, TO COME OUT IN SOME MANNER OR OTHER, it will show up at odd times and places, and you will all of a sudden say, Why I think I love this NEW guy or girl, look at all the things that were wrong with my last partner. No what is usually wrong, is not with your last partner, IT IS WITH YOU. God's speaking to you. Why, you ask, "cause your the one listening to him."
WHAT YOU ARE SAYING IS, I AIN'T GIVING SEX, AND HE AIN'T GIVING SEX.

SAD THING!!!

OK. I can buy that. If you do not want TO follow the Christian Precept on Marriage, then I ain't there at every nook and cranny to see that you do follow it.

Your body doesn't belong to you, it belongs to your husband!

The husband's body don't belong to him it belongs to you!

Neither one of you can SAY NO to each other if the other wants sex!

If you do you open up your marriage to Satin's Wiles. And he is a wily one!

Now, NO IS A HORRIBLE WORD TO HEAR, WHEN YOU NEED SEX.

IT CUTS US TO THE BONE EMOTIONALLY. SO IF YOU DON'T WANT IT DONE TO YOU, DON'T DO IT TO YOUR MATE. 

SO, YES, I DO HEAR YOU,  WHEN YOUR LIFE IS TORN UP WITH STRIFE AND SEX HAS GONE DORMANT. IT HAPPENS! TURN IT ALL OVER TO GOD, WHEN YOU CAN'T SEE NO WAY OUT, GOD WILL FIND YOU A WAY OUT, EVEN IF IT'S JUST MORE OF HIM! THAT IS WHEN ONE PICKS UP THE PIECES, AND LOOKS TO THE FUTURE WITH GOD AS YOUR GUIDE.

NO WONDER WE HAVE A 50% RATE OF CHILDREN BORN OUTSIDE OF WEDLOCK. WHERE IS THEIR EXAMPLES?

YOU KNOW I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO GET MARRIED. THEY GOT SOME PRETTY BAD EXAMPLES THEY HAVE SEEN, EITHER FRIENDS, FAMILY, OR THEMSELVES.

SOMEWHERE IN ALL THIS IF GOD, IS PUT IN HIS RIGHT PLACE, YOU WILL BE ABLE TO FOLLOW HIS PRECEPTS ON THE REST OF THE STUFF AS WELL.

NOW THE ABOVE IS THE FOUNDATION ON WHICH I BASE THIS TREATISE.

 
WHY I LET MY HUSBAND DO WHAT HE WANTS TO DO!

LISTEN PEOPLE:
1.  DON FIXES BREAKFAST!

2.  DON DOES THE DISHES BEFORE HE GOES TO WORK!

3.  DON DOES DISHES AFTER A PARTY AND CLEARS THE TABLE AND PUTS 
THE FOOD AWAY!

4.  DON MOPS FLOOR WITH MOP & GLO!
5.  DON VACUUMS LIVING ROOM AND DINING ROOM FLOORS!
6.  DON TAKES OUT THE TRASH!

7.  DON CUTS GRASS FRONT& BACK!

8.  DON PLANTS VEGGIES TO EAT! 

9.  DON MOVES FURNITURE!

10. DON WASHES THE CARS!

11. DON LOADS UP THE TRAVEL TRAILER AND CAR FOR A TRIP!
12. DON UNLOADS ALL THE ABOVE IN WHATEVER STATE WE ARE IN!
13. DON BRINGS IN ALL THE ITEMS THAT WE BUY OUT  OF TOWN!

14. DON PLANTS TREES!
15. DON TAKES  CARE OF HIS ROSES!

16. JUST A NOTE TO SAY:
17. DON TRIES TO HELP THE KIDS WITH THEIR TO DO LIST!
18. DON HELPS WITH SEWING, PINNING ALL PATTERNS, CUTTING ALL PATTERNS, TURNS TINY STRAPS WITH A SAFETY  PIN, WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET FINISHED PRODUCT! 


19. DON DOES ALL THE PAPER WORK!

20. WHATEVER THE JOB IS:
21.  DON WILL DO IT!
22.  DON KNITS BABY BLANKETS WHILE WATCHING NCIS!      
23. DON PLAYS WITH ALL GRAND KIDS WHEN HE GETS THE CHANCE TO GET TO TEXAS.
24. DON FEEDS & BRUSHES TIVA OUR DOG!

25. DON DON'T LIKE "UN-BUSY!"
26. DON LOVES TO SEX ME UP, AS I ALSO DO HIM. MOSTLY IT'S PLAY...................... BUT AT OUR AGE THAT GETS TO BE WORK SOMETIMES................................ 


NOW WHEN DON WANTS, A “BEER,” OR TWO OR THREE, HERE AT THE HOUSE OR WITH HIS FRIEND Z AT HIS HOUSE, IT WOULD BE VERY TACKY OF ME TO SAY, “NO." "OH I'VE DONE IT BEFORE BUT I IMMEDIATELY FELT RATHER BAD AND SAW WHAT I HAD DONE. HEY, I'M HUMAN! BUT REMEMBER THIS, IT AIN'T RIGHT TO BE ORDERING A MAN AROUND, TRY PLEASE!
  BUT HE ALSO KNOWS WHEN NOT TO DRINK A BEER, IF A MAN OR WOMAN CAN'T HAVE ONE, THEN HE IS OK WITH THAT, AND DOES NOT DRINK AROUND THEM. HE IS A REAL KIND MAN, HE RESPECTS THEIR DECISIONS, EMOTIONS. HE IS ONE WHO THINKS  OF OTHER PEOPLE'S FEELINGS.

IN FACT, IF DON ASKED FOR ANYTHING, HE SHOULD GET IT, DON'T YOU AGREE. I FOR  ONE THINK HE IS TRYING TO MAKE IT EASIER ON ME WHILE I SEW AND WRITE. SO I HAVE NOTHING, BUT ACCOLADES, FOR THE MAN, AND "NO," IS NOT IN MY VOCABULARY, SO HIS EARS CAN HEAR IT.
BESIDES, HE KNOWS MORE THAN I DO ABOUT OUR FINANCIAL SITUATION, AND IF HE DECIDES SOMETHING LIKE HE HAS TO WORK ON WEEKENDS, I SHOULD BOW TO HIS SUPERIOR KNOWLEDGE. ALSO WHEN WE RETIRE! THAT'S A CALL HE SHOULD MAKE NOT ME! COURSE I DO PUT MY 2 CENTS WORTH IN!

DO YOU SEE WHAT I AM SAYING! I REALLY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO TELL THE MAN, WHAT HE CAN AND CANNOT DO, WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THIS MARRIAGE. I HAVE MET WOMEN THAT ACT LIKE THEY OWN THE GIRL OR GUY. HEY MAN, NO SLAVERY, REMEMBER!!!

AFTER ALL, A MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE A PLACE WHERE, YOU HAVE A JUDGE AND A JURY ON YOUR TAIL AT ALL TIMES. A MARRIAGE IS NOT A PLACE OF MISERY, WHERE ANOTHER CAN VENT ALL THEIR FURY ON THE SAID INDIVIDUALS. A MARRIAGE IS NOT A PLACE TO BE BOSSY. NOT UNLESS YOU GET PAID FOR IT, I THINK .

A MARRIAGE IS NOT A HOT BED FOR JEALOUSY. GET OUT OF IT, IF YOU CAN'T CONTROL YOUR JEALOUSY. YOUR CERTAINLY NOT PRACTICING FORGIVENESS, THEREBY ENSURING YOU WON'T BE FORGIVEN BY JESUS EITHER . YOUR ALREADY IN HOT WATER, WHAT'S A LITTLE, LEAVING ON A RECORD OF THAT MAGNITUDE. OR IF YOU CAN'T GET OUT OF IT, AS LEAST GET IT RIGHT. GODLY RIGHT.

THERE IS NOTHING MORE DAMAGING TO A MARRIAGE THAN UNBRIDLED JEALOUSY, PLUS IT KEEPS FRIENDS FROM BEING COMFORTABLE WHEN THEY VISIT, IF ONE EXHIBITS THE SIGNS OF JEALOUSY AGAINST THEM. THE MAN OR WOMAN CAN NEVER WIN! NEVER CAN YOU PROVE IT, BUT YOU CAN MAKE EVERYBODY INVOLVED IN IT, MISERABLE. ACTUALLY, THERE IS SOMETHING YOU CAN DO IF YOU'RE THE JEALOUS TYPE, YOU CAN IMPROVE YOURSELF, THEREBY GIVING YOU MORE CONFIDENCE IN DEALING WITH THE DAYS NEEDS.

BUT PLEASE LEAVE THE JEALOUSY TO GOD! HE CAN HANDLE IT. I'M SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE, MY FRIEND. YOU'LL OPEN A CAN OF WORMS IF YOU DON'T LET THE HOT THING GO!
JUST DON'T DO IT. BITE YOUR TONGUE !

THE MAN LIKES TO BE AROUND HIS FAMILY AND YOU DO TOO. I CERTAINLY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO APPROVE OR DISAPPROVE OF THEM. A MAN CAN'T CHOOSE HIS RELATIVES. HIS FRIENDS YES, NOT HIS BROS OR SIS. Do not cause conflict by conflicting about your relatives. Hey man, yours or mine, ain't pots of gold, but neither are they clay pots. It's all up to the POTTER TO MAKE A MAN OR WOMAN, WHAT THEY SHOULD BE. We really should stay out of it. IT'S MORE HONEST THAT WAY! WHY YOU ASK? BECAUSE WE DON'T SEE ALL FACETS OF OUR RELATIVES THAT IS WHY.

 TRY TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE A HAPPY ONE. STRIFE DOWN TO A MINIMUM.

GOD HATES A MAN OR WOMAN WHO CAUSES STRIFE AMONGST HIS BRETHREN. THIS IS A NO, NO. SO NEXT TIME YOU WANT TO TELL A MATE WHAT SOMEONE DID TO YOU, FORGET IT RIGHT THEN AND THERE. GO WITH GOD ON THIS ONE. DON'T ADD TO STRIFE AMONGST BROTHERS AND SISTERS. FAMILY REUNIONS WITH ALWAYS BE UNITS OF PEACE THEN.

MOST OF ALL, DON'T STRIVE WITH YOUR MATE. LIVE IN PEACE. GOD CAME TO BRING US PEACE, SO WHY NOT TAKE IT. MAKE YOUR HOUSE A LITTLE HEAVEN ON EARTH AND YOUR MATE WILL BE HAPPY TO COME HOME TO IT.

COUNTRIES STRIVE, CHURCHES STRIVE, SCHOOLS STRIVE, BUSINESS'S STRIVE, DON'T ADD TO IT. WHEN YOU COME HOME, LEAVE THE STRIFE, WHERE IT BELONGS, OUTSIDE YOUR 4 WALLS, AND BE A LOVING AGENT OF GOD. I THINK HE'S PROBABLY GOT PLENTY OF THE OTHER KIND, WHO CALL THEMSELVES CHRISTIANS AND ARE NOT. REMEMBER GOD IS LOVE!, NOW THAT AIN'T HARD TO EMULATE. BE GOD LIKE AND YOU'LL FIND YOURSELF A HAPPY CREATURE.

NO GOD DON'T ALLOW DON TO GET ANOTHER WOMAN. WHY YOU ASK. BECAUSE DON DIDN'T SEEK ONE FOR HIMSELF AND DON DIDN'T ASK FOR ONE FROM GOD, HE'S PERFECTLY SATISFIED WITH ME, I KNOW! REMEMBER DAVID AND BATHSHEBA, GOD WAS RATHER MAD, AT DAVID. HE HAD WIVES YOU KNOW, BUT HE PICKED ONE ALL BY HIMSELF. THEN GOD said to him, WHY DID YOU DO THAT? IF YOU'D ASK ME I WOULDA GIVEN YOU ONE. SEE! HE SIMPLY WON'T STEAL OR KILL TO GET YOU A WIFE, YES I AM AWARE OF ABIGAIL, BUT THAT GUY was very mean to David, he did die, and David took Abigail as his wife because she was a peacemaker, AND KNEW WHAT HER HUSBAND DID TO DAVID WAS WRONG. AND DAVID GOT HIS WIFE. BUT STILL DAVID DID'NT PICK HER, GOD DID IT.

SEE WHAT IS GOING ON HERE. BETTER NOT BE FOUND PICKING THEM FOR YOURSELF. LET GOD DO IT IF YOUR REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT A CHANGE FOR SOME REASON OR OTHER! HE WASN'T OPPOSED TO GIVING DAVID ANOTHER WIFE, HE WAS OPPOSED TO DAVID'S GOING HIS OWN WAY WITHOUT CONSULTING HIM. 
 AND IF YOU'VE LOST A MATE, MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. THAT IS A HARD ROW TO HOE, MAY GOD BE YOKED WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. THAT IS MORE THAN MY MIND CAN HANDLE.  I DO NOT GIVE MY OPINION, BUT TO A VERY FEW PEOPLE,  ON TRAGEDIES. I AM SURE A "PREACHER BOY,"  CAN AND WILL HELP YOU. BUT MAYBE THIS WILL HELP, ON THE PICK OF THE NEXT ONE. BUT BY ALL MEANS, ASK GOD'S ADVISE. AND IF GOD WANTS IT TO HAPPEN, THEN WHO CAN BE FOUND FIGHTING GOD!


BACK TO NORMAL SITUATIONS:

BUT UNDERSTAND THIS, HE CAN ALSO NOT GIVE YOU ANOTHER WIFE IF FOR SOME REASON OR OTHER, YOU CAN'T STAND THE ONE YOU GOT. ALSO HE CAN GIVE YOUR WIFE ANOTHER HUSBAND IF YOU DON'T' FLY RIGHT. AND THAT WILL LEAVE YOU (MR OR MRS,) DOWNRIGHT LONELY! UNLESS, ONE DESIRES ANOTHER, IN THAT CASE GOD WILL INTERVENE. SOUNDS! LIKE AN UN-HOLY MESS!  AND ONLY GOD CAN CLEAN UP UN-HOLY MESSES.

 SO WHY NOT JUST BE CONTENT WITH WHAT GOD HAS DONE FOR YOU. BOTH OF YOU! HE HATES GRUMBLING ALSO, HE OPENED THE EARTH AND SWALLOWED UP THE GRUMBLERS. I THINK GOD LIKES CONTENTMENT!

BUT SOMETIMES HE JUST GETS TIRED OF SIN! AND HE GETS HIS CUP FULL, THEN HE REACTS. MAKING THE SIN UNTO DEATH,

AFTER ALL HE IS SOVEREIGN, AND CALLS EVERY SHOT.

DO BE SO CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR...GOD  IS MYSTERIOUS! AND DOWNRIGHT WIERD SOMETIMES.

!!!!!!!!!!!! OUR GOD IS A JEALOUS GOD!!!!!!!!!

THAT STANDS TRUE ON ALL THINGS! BETTER PRAY FIRST! THEN IF YOU GET IT, YOU'LL KNOW GOD DID IT. 

I DID NOT SAY HOW YOU'D GET IT, I DID SAY, ASK AND YOU SHALL receive!

Later, nina
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